It is often said that the ‘love flame’ dies after you have kids. But it is not true. You can bring the lost magic back to your love life. Newly become parents are often stressed and sleep deprived as they are coping up with the changes around them. Parents are emotionally and physically tired and stressed when they meet up the demands of their growing children.
It is said that there is no magic in your love life after kids. But the truth is that the parents are engrossed in keeping with the necessities and demands of their children that they don’t get time for each other at all. Children always come between your private conversations and always deprive the parents of their dinner plans, unscheduled sex and weekend vacations. There are many things that can be planned and implemented to make your love life better and you both can get some good time with each other.
Do small things that will make your partner happy. Behave in such a way when kids were not at the scene. A good relationship must have some spice in it to make it work.
- Greet each other when you come home from work. A smile or a kiss will surprise your partner. Ask about the day he spent in office.
- Schedule some alone time when you have kids. Don’t be bogged up in the daily routine and having routine sex. Spending some alone time will feel better.
- Call your mate at work and flirt with him like you did before having kids.
- Try having some intimate moments in some other rooms, when kids are not around.
- Catch your partner in the kitchen when she is cooking and kiss her. Kissing can be a powerful tool to heat up your love life.
- Feel confident, respect your body and feel that you are wonderful. Buy sexy lingerie for your partner.
- Buy a gift and a cake on your partner’s birthday. Surprise them by cooking some good food. Show him you care and appreciate him.
- Have a love affair with your partner again.
A good relationship can add wonderful moments in your life. It can be the highlight of your life. On the other hand a stressful relationship will add many health issues due to the stress and emotional difficulties. Try to stay relax and calm. This will help maintain a healthy environment in your family and this will reflect in your love life too.
Be happy about your love life and stop complaining. You need to learn to be happy in your life. Focus on positive things in your love life. If you need to add up some spice or bring some magic back to your love life. It is you who need to make an effort to step ahead and make some changes in yourself and your behavior. Don’t neglect your partner because you are bogged up in your kid’s routine. Show him that you appreciate and care for him. Spend time with your partner like small walks after dinner. Accept the life as it is and focus on the good things and happiness. Surely, small things will reflect and add charm to your love life.
Best Of Luck!