Let’s get one thing straight—being a work from home mom is no walk in the park. It’s more like a daily obstacle course that begins at 6 AM with a diaper change and ends with an email sent at 11 PM, half-asleep, while reheating your untouched dinner. I say this as someone who’s lived it—and is probably living it right now while writing this with one hand and holding a fussy toddler in the other. Working after a baby especially from home sounds dreamy to many—no commute, flexible hours, and the joy of being around your kids. But behind the curtain, it’s a constant balancing act of being present for your family while also trying to be your best professional self. Let’s talk about the real, unfiltered challenges of being a work from home mom, and maybe give each other...
Let’s get one thing straight—being a work from home mom is no walk in the park. It’s more like a daily obstacle course that begins at 6 AM with a diaper change and ends with an email sent at 11 PM, half-asleep, while reheating your untouched dinner. I say this as someone who’s lived it—and is probably living it right now while writing this with one hand and holding a fussy toddler in the other.
Working after a baby especially from home sounds dreamy to many—no commute, flexible hours, and the joy of being around your kids. But behind the curtain, it’s a constant balancing act of being present for your family while also trying to be your best professional self.
Let’s talk about the real, unfiltered challenges of being a work from home mom, and maybe give each other a virtual hug while we’re at it.
1. You’re Always Multitasking—Even When You Shouldn’t Be
You’re replying to client emails while blending fruit for your kid’s snack, answering Slack messages mid-diaper change, and attending Zoom calls with your baby babbling in the background. You’re not just multitasking, you’re a full-blown acrobat. And let’s not even talk about muting and unmuting at lightning speed.
2. “You’re Home, So You Can Handle It”
This one hits hard. Just because you’re a work from home mom doesn’t mean you’re available 24/7. But neighbors, family members, and even your partner may assume you can run errands, supervise homework, or attend to every household task because you’re “just at home.” Nope. You have a job, too—and sometimes that’s the hardest part to justify.
3. Setting Boundaries is Like Herding Cats
Ever tried to explain to a 3-year-old that mommy is working and cannot play right now? It doesn’t work. Kids don’t understand work mode versus home mode. You can close the door, put up a sign, wear noise-canceling headphones—and they’ll still barge in, especially when you’re presenting to your boss.
4. There’s No “Off” Button
You finish work only to begin your second shift—cooking dinner, cleaning up toys, helping with homework, managing tantrums. There’s no commute to decompress, no line separating office life from home life. Everything blends together in a never-ending loop.
5. Guilt. All. The. Time.
Guilt when you’re working and not playing with your child. Guilt when you’re playing and not meeting that deadline. Guilt when you hide in the bathroom just for five minutes of quiet. As a work from home mom, the mental load is constant, and the guilt hits you from all sides.
6. Constant Distractions (And Not Just From the Kids)
Laundry beeping, deliveries arriving, meals to cook, dishes to clean. Home is a minefield of distractions, and staying focused feels nearly impossible when you’re surrounded by tasks waiting to be done.
7. Lack of Adult Interaction
Sometimes, your only conversation all day is with a toddler who only speaks in Cocomelon lyrics. You miss adult company, coffee breaks with coworkers, or even the dreaded Monday meeting. The isolation is real, and it can slowly wear you down if you’re not careful.
8. Self-Care Gets Pushed to the Bottom
You’re the CEO of your household, the project manager of your job, and the nurse, teacher, chef, and chauffeur all rolled into one. No surprise that your own needs fall last. But trust me—taking time for yourself is not selfish, it’s survival.
9. Judgment—Online and Offline
Everyone has an opinion. People will judge whether you’re working too much or too little, giving your child too much screen time, or not attending PTA meetings. Social media doesn’t help either—it often glorifies unrealistic “perfect mom” routines that just make you feel worse.
10. You Still Wouldn’t Change It
Even with all the chaos, mess, and exhaustion, being a work from home mom means you’re there for the little things. First steps, surprise hugs, spontaneous dance parties—you get to witness the moments many parents miss. And somehow, that makes it all worth it.
Working from home is a powerful juggling act—and if you’re doing it, you’re already a rockstar. It’s not easy, and there are days it’ll feel downright impossible. But it’s also rewarding in ways that are hard to describe.
So if no one told you today—you’re doing great. Give yourself grace, take breaks when you can, and know that you are not alone in this journey.
