Tricks that make you photogenic

I used to dread photos. The kind of dread where you accidentally duck when someone opens the selfie cam. Yep, that was me. But over time (and many, many terrible photo tags on social media), I figured out some game-changing tricks that make you photogenic—and trust me, they don’t involve filters or being born with a Kardashian jawline.

These are the little hacks I picked up that actually worked. No perfection needed—just a bit of self-awareness and a willingness to play around. Let’s go?

1. Mirror, Mirror… Be My Coach

Okay, this one sounds vain, but it’s genius: pose in the mirror. Not just a quick glance—really study yourself. I used to stand stiff as a board in photos (like I was waiting for a passport pic), but then I started noticing how a tiny turn of my shoulders or popping one leg out instantly changed how I looked.

Stand in front of a full-length mirror, move side to side, play with angles, tilt your head, place a hand on your hip (classic, but still golden). Don’t be shy—this is your free rehearsal stage. And spoiler alert: everyone has a “better side.”

2. Highlight What You Love (Not Hide What You Don’t)

I always thought being photogenic meant hiding my flaws. Wrong. It’s about leaning into what you do love—your sparkly eyes, your curls, your strong shoulders. I have a soft spot for my collarbones (weird, I know), so I started wearing necklines that show them off in pics.

Wanna elevate it further? Use accessories to draw attention to your fav features. A bright scarf, bold earrings, or even your signature lipstick can make all the difference.

3. Unclench That Jaw, Friend

You know when you’re so focused on smiling that you accidentally tense up your face? Guilty. For the longest time, I didn’t even realize I had this “camera smile” that looked like I was trying not to cry.

Before snapping a pic, I literally remind myself: “Drop your shoulders. Unclench your jaw. Breathe.” Softening your expression makes you look way more natural. And if all else fails, think of something funny—seriously, a tiny chuckle brings out the most relaxed, real smile.

4. Add a Little Movement

Still photos can sometimes flatten your energy, especially if you’re super expressive in real life. So here’s a trick: move! Twirl your hair, turn slightly, walk slowly, or laugh mid-pose. Ask whoever’s taking the photo to snap a few while you’re shifting positions.

The best pictures I’ve taken? They were in motion. Think: “I was just about to say something.” It feels awkward, but it looks effortless.

5. Lighting Is a Bigger Deal Than You Think

I’ll say it louder for the people in the back: bad lighting can ruin even the best photo. Natural light is your best friend—especially in the early morning or late afternoon (hello, golden hour glow).

Avoid overhead lighting (especially indoor fluorescents—they’re the devil), and never stand with the sun directly behind you unless you want your face in shadowy darkness.

My go-to move? Stand near a window, facing it. That soft light is basically a real-life filter.

6. Dress Like You Mean It (But Keep It Real)

Every time I’ve tried to wear something “trendy” but not me, it shows up in the pictures. Your outfit needs to be something that makes you feel 10/10 confident.

Stick to silhouettes you know flatter you. Play with colors that make your skin glow (hint: everyone has a “power color”). If you’re into makeup, go for your tried-and-tested routine. Picture day is not the time to try glitter eyeliner for the first time—unless you’re that confident (in which case, go off!).

7. Your Photographer Matters More Than You Think

I swear, 80% of how photogenic you look depends on who’s behind the camera. Choose someone who hypes you up, cracks jokes, and makes you feel safe being goofy.

When I shoot with my best friend, I always look more “me.” Why? Because I’m laughing, relaxed, and not overthinking every muscle in my face. If you feel stiff around someone, your pics will feel stiff too. Facts.

8. Practice > Perfection

If you’re rolling your eyes and thinking, “This is too much,” hear me out: being photogenic is a skill. And just like any skill, it gets better with practice.

Take selfies. Do goofy mini-shoots. Set your phone on timer and just play. You’ll learn what angles work, what lighting you love, and most importantly—you’ll stop being scared of the camera.

My Final Takeaway?

Being photogenic isn’t about chasing some Instagram-perfect ideal. It’s about capturing your energy. The glow you get when you’re with your people. The confidence from wearing your favorite outfit. The comfort of not giving a damn whether your smile is “perfect.”

So next time someone pulls out a camera, don’t duck. Shine.